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Judy G. Russell
June 19th, 2006, 10:03 AM
She came into my life one spring weekend more than 16 years ago -- a little ball of white fluff, one blue eye and one green and the congenital deafness that goes hand in hand with that combination of fur and eye color. She weighed barely six pounds in her fighting prime, but she carved out a place for herself in my heart and my life way out of any proportion to her size ... and she leaves a hole just as big...

Mist was born in April 1990 on a farm in Virginia. There were five kittens in the litter and four had the hallmarks of deafness. There was no chance they could survive there; they would not last on a farm and no shelter would try to save them out there in the country. So she and her also-deaf brother Snow came to make their homes with me.

There is so much I will remember about this little girl. I knew for certain that she and her brother were deaf when they sat at the window during their first lightning-and-thunder storm, pawing at the window when lightning would flash as if God was putting on a light show for their benefit. She slept through vacuum cleaning (try THAT with a cat with normal hearing). And she was the one who slept peacefully and with blissful ignorance throughout an entire episode of a home invasion by a raccoon.

She was without question the most beautiful cat who has ever owned me. A beautiful and sweet face, a disposition ranging from sweet to downright mischievious. She was a lot smaller than her brother, so for the longest time whenever I would hear her squeal, I was sure he was picking on her. Then I really paid attention... and found that most of the time the feisty little girl was the instigator!

Because of their deafness, I had to use a plant mister to try to discipline her and Snow. Snow soon began to run as soon as I picked up the plant mister. Mist, on the other hand, would curl up, cover her face with one paw and swipe at me with the other.

She had a habit of sitting up on her haunches and holding her front paws together so that she almost looked like she was pretending to be a kangaroo. She never begged for food or table scraps, but she sure begged whenever she wanted to be petted -- especially to be scritched under the chin.

Mist managed to sneak out of the house once when painters left an upstairs window screen unlatched. She maneuvered along a second floor ledge from one side of the house to the other and I had to slide out onto a porch roof to get her back in. (She never tried to get out again!) One time I thought she had gotten out and went into a total panic, only to find her curled up sleeping peacefully under a record cabinet.

She acquired a nickname, Fang, when she was a very young cat. She managed to get herself caught up inside a rocker recliner. I didn't know how she'd gotten in and couldn't see an easy way to get her out so I ended up cutting through the upholstery to free her. She'd gotten an upholstery cord tangled around her leg and was hanging upside down, screaming. I had one hand to hold the cord away from her leg, one hand to use the scissors and no more hands to hold the cat, who was frantic. I got her free but there was blood all over the place (and on a solid white cat, even a little blood looks like a LOT). I threw her in the cat carrier, flew to the emergency vet, they cleaned her up, looked at her, looked at me, and solemnly advised, "Ma'am, there's nothing wrong with this cat." All the blood was mine, where she'd bitten me. I still have the report from the emergency vet: it says the cat was given a muscle relaxant and calming agent, and the owner was sent to the hospital for treatment of cat bites...

She became a lap cat in the last few years, and she slept with me from the time she was a small kitten. Yes, we've had a really good 16 years, all in all. But more than that we will not have.

Her downward spiral started only about two weeks ago. She wasn't eating well, she was lethargic. Blood tests showed her kidneys were failing. We did everything we possibly could to see if we could buy her more good time, but in the end it was time to put away the medicines and the needles and the treatments and to soothe and smooth her way to a peaceful and painless end.

Mist crossed the Rainbow Bridge (http://www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.html) just after 10 this morning. And oh how I will miss her...

http://www.pbase.com/jgr/image/2331741/medium.jpg

Wayne Scott
June 19th, 2006, 10:20 AM
Judy, I am sitting here looking at a blurred screen because I'm crying so hard.

Wayne

lensue
June 19th, 2006, 10:37 AM
>Mist crossed the Rainbow Bridge just after 10 this morning. And oh how I will miss her...<

Judy, my condolences--how sad. Regards, Len

Judy G. Russell
June 19th, 2006, 11:13 AM
Thanks, Wayne. It is really amazing how these little fur babies get their claws in our hearts, isn't it...

Judy G. Russell
June 19th, 2006, 11:15 AM
My head tells me it isn't sad -- she had a really good life. My heart however... that's another story altogether...

Mike Landi
June 19th, 2006, 02:07 PM
Mist crossed the Rainbow Bridge (http://www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.html) just after 10 this morning. And oh how I will miss her...


Oh, Judy...

I'm so sorry...a small piece of your soul has been taken away...

I know there is not much to say, other than I feel badly for you. I wish I was a better wordsmith...

Judy G. Russell
June 19th, 2006, 03:00 PM
I'm so sorry...a small piece of your soul has been taken away... I know there is not much to say, other than I feel badly for you. I wish I was a better wordsmith...Those are just the right words, Mike. It does feel exactly like that, like a part of me is missing.

Mike Landi
June 19th, 2006, 03:32 PM
Maybe take one of your excellent pictures of Mist, have it printed and framed to be placed in a prominent place in your house...that would at least be a lasting tribute to her.

Judy G. Russell
June 19th, 2006, 04:31 PM
Maybe take one of your excellent pictures of Mist, have it printed and framed to be placed in a prominent place in your house...that would at least be a lasting tribute to her.Once I can see well enough (my eyes keep tearing up for some reason), I will do just that...

Pats
June 19th, 2006, 07:24 PM
She came into my life one spring weekend more than 16 years ago -- a little ball of white fluff, one blue eye and one green and the congenital deafness that goes hand in hand with that combination of fur and eye color. She weighed barely six pounds in her fighting prime, but she carved out a place for herself in my heart and my life way out of any proportion to her size ... and she leaves a hole just as big...

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Mist crossed the Rainbow Bridge (http://www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.html) just after 10 this morning. And oh how I will miss her...

http://www.pbase.com/jgr/image/2331741/medium.jpg



Judy, I am so very, very sorry.

Love, hugs, and purrs to you from me and my furballs,

Pats, with LES (leaky eye syndrome)

davidh
June 19th, 2006, 07:42 PM
You've probably heard this story before, but just in case:

http://www.abc.net.au/queensland/stories/s1463021.htm

Since the pets can't read English, I don't think they'll mind whether it says dogs or cats.

DH

Lindsey
June 19th, 2006, 09:52 PM
Oh, Judy, I'm so sorry! Losing a member of your family who just happens to walk on four legs is no less painful than losing one who walks on two. Mist was a lucky cat to have found such an understanding human to adopt.

--Lindsey

Judy G. Russell
June 19th, 2006, 10:00 PM
Pats, I have a major case of LES today and tonight myself. Thanks...

Lindsey
June 19th, 2006, 10:00 PM
You've probably heard this story before, but just in case:
Oh! I remember that as an episode of "The Twilight Zone"! (One of my favorites, BTW.)

--Lindsey

Judy G. Russell
June 19th, 2006, 10:02 PM
Thanks, David... that's very sweet. Another one I heard today that I found very comforting was that God welcomes all the kitties to heaven and personally places each one on the lap of an angel.

Judy G. Russell
June 19th, 2006, 10:04 PM
Losing a member of your family who just happens to walk on four legs is no less painful than losing one who walks on two.In some ways I think it's harder. No matter how much we love another person, the relationship is always complicated. With a cat or a dog, it's pure simple unconditional love. Sigh...

Mike
June 20th, 2006, 12:36 AM
My condolences, Judy.

<BIG HUGS>

Mike Landi
June 20th, 2006, 08:35 AM
<hug>

Judy G. Russell
June 20th, 2006, 08:38 AM
Thanks, Mike... I'm still very much in the "head knows it's right, heart isn't so sure" stage of this...

davidh
June 20th, 2006, 10:57 AM
Oh! I remember that as an episode of "The Twilight Zone"! (One of my favorites, BTW.)

--Lindsey Now, in the 21st century, thanks to special effects, etc, our TV "morality" plays are animated by car crashes, exploding bombs, and sorcerers shooting lightning, lasers, and occult flamethrowers at each other :(

ye olde sourpuss, DH

fhaber
June 20th, 2006, 11:07 AM
..and mine. Funny how hard the death of a pet is, isn't it. No, not funny.

earler
June 20th, 2006, 11:17 AM
We have 2 cats who are now 17 years old. When they go we'll bury them with the other animals (dogs and cats) that have passed through our life. The place is some ground behind our private cemetery where family is interred. (It is rare to be able to have a private cemetery in france, by the way. Whenever someone is interred a government official has to be present.)

-er

Judy G. Russell
June 20th, 2006, 02:47 PM
The legalities here forced me to opt for private cremation. Her ashes will go with mine in the end...

Judy G. Russell
June 20th, 2006, 02:48 PM
Funny how hard the death of a pet is, isn't it.I've concluded that, in part, it's because -- unlike relationships with people, which are always complex, even when they are very good -- relationships with our pets are simply and totally about love.

Lindsey
June 20th, 2006, 04:12 PM
Now, in the 21st century, thanks to special effects, etc, our TV "morality" plays are animated by car crashes, exploding bombs, and sorcerers shooting lightning, lasers, and occult flamethrowers at each other
Part of the reason I don't watch a lot of television and rarely go to movies any more...

--Lindsey

ktinkel
June 21st, 2006, 09:01 AM
Mist crossed the Rainbow Bridge just after 10 this morning. And oh how I will miss her...Very sorry to hear about Mist. She will live on in memory, however. We have lost six cats, and still remember (and miss) every individual one of them.

Mist was gorgeous.

Judy G. Russell
June 21st, 2006, 09:35 AM
Very sorry to hear about Mist. She will live on in memory, however. We have lost six cats, and still remember (and miss) every individual one of them. Mist was gorgeous.
She was gorgeous, wasn't she? Sweetest face I have ever seen... not that she didn't have a devilish side to her, but... Sigh... yes, we do remember them all, don't we? I keep hoping the last two were there at the other side of the Bridge to welcome Mist...

Mike
June 23rd, 2006, 12:29 AM
And that's an understandable situation, Judy. Take your time to grieve.

Dodi Schultz
June 23rd, 2006, 05:58 PM
Judy, I'm so sorry. She was indeed beautiful. Hm. I seem to be suffering from the same ocular affliction as Wayne....

--Dodi, who is not employed full-time but is leased by Bonnie when her regular staff is called away (and keeps a permanent assortment of Whiskas foil packets on hand, along with a jar of Aquari-Yums)

Judy G. Russell
June 24th, 2006, 10:39 PM
Thanks, Dodi. I am almost to the point where I can hear or read her name without my eyes getting blurry... I figure I'll be just fine in, oh, another year or two...

Pats
June 26th, 2006, 05:00 PM
She was gorgeous, wasn't she? Sweetest face I have ever seen... not that she didn't have a devilish side to her, but... Sigh... yes, we do remember them all, don't we? I keep hoping the last two were there at the other side of the Bridge to welcome Mist...

Of course they were, Judy... and so were my Mary Lou, Phoebe, Lucy, and Mitsie. They're all helping her get settled in.

Just like with you and yours, my guys' ashes and mine will all go together some day.

{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}},
Pats

Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrs and headbumpies,
Peony, Sydney, Priscilla, and Poppy

Judy G. Russell
June 26th, 2006, 06:43 PM
Of course they were, Judy... and so were my Mary Lou, Phoebe, Lucy, and Mitsie. They're all helping her get settled in.Thanks Pats and furbabies!